Lessons from Asifa’s Tragic Death
By SabihaBasit
Virginia, USA
On January 17th, the body of eight-year-old AsifaBano was found stacked upon a layer of filth amongst bushes. It was a sickening sightwith signs of multiple broken bones and blows to the head on the tiny frame. But, as if her captors thought that was not enough, she was drugged, tortured, and then raped by the assailants in a sacred temple.
Evidence suggests that it was a hate crime against Muslims, as Asifa was one, leading to a religious divide between the twocommunities. Hindu activists quickly assembled to defend the men behind the heinous crime. In fact, a mob of Hindu attorneys was seen demanding justice for the men accused of the crime. So, it is obvious that the tragic death of the young girl has shaken Indian-occupied Kashmir and added to its prevailing turbulence.
Asifa is not the first nor the last child subjected to sexual violence and rape. Her case embodies the ongoing gender-based violence in South Asian countries. In fact, frighteningly, one of India’s most prominent cities, New Delhi, has earned the title of ‘Rape Capital’.
South Asian countries contain mass human trafficking rings, which target primarily women and female children for sexual exploitation. No wonder that misogyny has ruled and integrated itself to be part of South Asian culture for many years. What these countries, that are blinded by patriarchy, must realize is that topics pertaining to domestic violence and assault are men’s topics too.
Feminist writer, BusangSennesuccinctly sums up the action men should take on these “women” issues. She says, "It is time for men to take ownership in how they help end gender-based violence. It starts with contributing to shifting attitudes and behaviors away from rape culture and the sexism and misogyny inherent in our society."
Although this is easier said than done, we can continue spreading awareness and educating each other on these important issues. If we wish to see change, we must start with ourselves. Let us all, both man and woman, examine the privilege we have, and use that privilege to help give voice to those who can’t.
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