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              n By Dr Syed Amir        The Muslim Aide at Hillary Clinton’s Side                                                and love that she had been miss-

                                                                                                                                ing thus far. The fact that she was a
                 Bethesda, MD                                                                                                   practicing Muslim did not matter to
                                                                                                                                Weiner and he was very supportive
               uma Abedin, a top aide to                                                                                        of her faith, occasionally fasting in
               Hilary Clinton, relates the                                                                                      Ramzan to keep company with her.
        Hstory, in her newly pub-                                                                                               Already in her early thirties, she fell
        lished memoir (Both/And; pub-                                                                                           hopelessly in love. They were mar-

                   lished by Simon and                                                                                          ried in an informal Muslim ceremo-
                   Schuster) of Clin-                                                                                           ny with the Abedin family in atten-
                   ton’s visit to Paki-                                                                                         dance and in a more elaborate one
                   stan  when  she  was                                                                                         hosted and presided over by former
                   the US Secretary of                                                                                          president Bill Clinton.
                   State  (2009-2013)                                                                                               That time was blissful, and life

                   under    President                                                                                           seemed to have given Abedin every-

        Barack Obama. The entire US del-                                                                                        thing she desired until a bomb shell
        egation accompanying the secre-                                                                                         fell. A New York tabloid broke the
        tary was invited to a state dinner                                                                                      story that Weiner had been sending
        at the presidential palace in Islam-                                                                                    unsolicited pictures of himself, with
        abad. While introducing Abedin                                                                                          varying levels of undress, with sala-
        to President Asif Ali Zardari, Clin-                                                                                    cious messages, to women he had
        ton mentioned that Huma was re-                                                                                         met online. Initially, he denied that
        cently engaged to marry. Zardari                                                                                        he was the real sender, but later con-
        unknowingly quipped, “I hope to                                                                                         fessed that he indeed was. The news

        a nice Pakistani boy.” There was a                                                                                      aroused a public outrage, with Con-

        brief moment of unease, as Abe-                                                                                         gressional leaders demanding that
        din was in fact engaged to New                                                                                          he  resign  from  Congress.  Expect-
        York’s Jewish Congressman, An-                                                                                          ing a child, the reported incidents
        thony Weiner.                                                                                                           caused great trauma and anguish to
            Abedin is the daughter of an                                                                                        Abedin.  The family was hounded

        Indian Muslim, Syed Zainul Abe-  ents from South Asia, growing up   litely escorted to the women’s sec-  quisite, where mango lassi tastes like   day and night by press photogra-
        din, and Pakistani mother, Saleha   in Saudi Arabia, and her life as an   tion.           manna from heaven and where I ate   phers. Initially not realizing the
        Mahmoud, both scholars. Mr Abe-  American citizen who was privi-  Abedin had had the opportu-  and ate and still weight fell off me.”   gravity of the situation, she attempt-


        din  was    an  eminent  Islamic  and   leged to observe history in the mak-  nity to attend numerous state din-  The book abounds in illuminat-  ed to defend her husband whom she
        Middle Eastern scholar, who was   ing from a vantage point.   ners in many countries as Clinton’s   ing stories. In one such episodes, she   continued to love.
        educated at the famous Aligarh    Abedin relates a number of   special aide. However, when she   describes the official visit to see King   Weiner was finally forced to re-



        Muslim  University  and  excelled in   interesting anecdotes drawn from   was invited to an Iftar and dinner   Abdullah who was to receive US   sign from Congress in disgrace. The


        the equestrian team. Later, he ob-  her experience as Clinton’s senior   party at the White House, hosted by   Secretary Clinton in his Bedouoin   forthright description of this period
        tained his PhD at the University of   aide. She narrates an enlightening   President Obama, for Muslim am-  tent in Riyadh.  It was a facade as,   and the mental anguish that she suf-
        Pennsylvania in the US. He spent   story about an occasion when she   bassadors, Congressmen and other   from inside, the tent looked no dif-  fered is incredibly touching. Abedin

        some time teaching in Saudi Arabia   accompanied President Clinton on   high officials, and seated alongside   ferent from a plush palace audience   frantically wanted to believe that


        and founded the Institute of Mus-  a  visit  to Saudi  Arabia.  The  presi-  the  president, she felt immense   hall. When dinner was served, it was   her  marriage could be salvaged.


        lim Minority Affairs with offices in   dent was invited in 2002 to address   pride and exhilaration and a special   a spectacle, a huge table burdened   Yet Weiner’s reckless conduct was a

        Saudi Arabia and London.      the Jeddah Economic Forum and   bond with Muslim dignitaries pres-  with all kinds of exotic and Western   symptom of a deep-seated sickness
            Huma was born in Kalama-  she was asked to be part of the del-  ent, describing them as “my people.”   dishes, and Clinton was expected to   which could not be cured when the

        zoo, Michigan, but moved to Jed-  egation. These were the days when   President Obama praised the Mus-  taste all of them.  She ate until she   family sought counselling. It only
        dah, Saudi Arabia, when her par-  strict gender segregation was prac-  lim  Americans  who  were  making   could no more, then found out that   got worse. In May 2017, a photo-

        ents relocated there. She was two   ticed in Saudi Arabia. However, the   great contributions in many fields   there were  two more dishes that   graph appeared on the front page
        years old at the time and spent a   hosts were informed in advance that   in America, especially citing Huma   were yet to come.   of a New York newspaper  in which


        significant part of childhood there.   it was important for the US presi-  Abedin  for  her  distinguished  ser-  The section of the book that   Weiner was shown sexting a photo-
        Her parents were devoted Muslims   dent that women be included in   vice.                 deals with the author’s whirlwind   graph of himself to a minor female,

        and Huma claims to be a practic-  the conference, and he was assured   Abedin expresses special affec-  romantic relationship with Anthony   while their young son slept nearby.

        ing Muslim and proud of her faith.   that they would be. Nevertheless, an   tion for Pakistan where most of her   Weiner, their marriage, and later its   Furious and desperate, Abedin filed
        She has long been associated with   embarrassing situation arose when   relatives live. She states, “In Pakistan   breakdown, is truly sad and heart-  for  divorce  from  Weiner  shortly

        Hillary Clinton, starting as a trainee   the president was greeted on his ar-  every visit unearthed a new discov-  breaking. Huma Abedin was lead-  after he pleaded guilty in a federal
        intern at the White House when the   rival at the conference by all male   ery, whether visiting the tree-lined,   ing a very hectic life as a senior aide   court and was convicted and sent to

        former was the first lady, rising to   officials dressed in thobes. Abedin,   wide avenues at one aunt’s house at   to Hilary Clinton and although she   prison for 21 months.


        become deputy chief of staff when   knowing the cultural norms, held   Islamabad, manicured and quiet, or   met a lot of important people there   The book is highly readable



        Clinton was secretary of state. In the   back until Clinton called her, “Come   the hustle and bustle of Karachi.” She   was scant chance of finding a suit-  and apparently not ghost-written, as

        course of her long association with   on Huma,” as he walked through a   mentions with pride her great uncle,   able  marriage  partner  until  An-  often is the case with political biog-

        Clinton, Abedin travelled exten-  male only entrance.  She relates that   Admiral S. M. Ahsan, who rose to   thony Weiner, the young Congress-  raphies. The reader is left with two

        sively and met many world leaders   she could feel the men’s discomfort,   become Commander in Chief of the   man from New York, a rising star in   puzzling questions: Why a person as
        and observed them closely. In her   “furtively  looking  away  or  simply   Pakistan Navy under Ayub Khan.   the Democratic Party, appeared on   gifted as Huma Abedin never tried



        memoirs, she explores her multiple   ignoring me.”  There was little else   She traces her affection for Pakistan   the  scene.  He  assiduously  courted   to strive for a more independent
        identities as a child of Muslim par-  they could do. Shortly, she was po-  as a place “where sugary tea is ex-  Abedin, offering all the attention   HUMA, P28

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